Some people say bigger is better, some say it’s too much to handle, and half of all people are stuck with the size they have. OnSpeedDating got the feedback that those who want and those who have, significantly above average (7inches (17.78cm) or more), wanted a space free the of guesswork. This week I got to partake in this hard to take seriously event, covered by a hard to take seriously news source.

During the actual “dates,” the event was about the same as other speed dating events. You talk to the first person for a few minutes, the bell rings and then you go to the next person while someone else talks to person you were just chatting with. Since you don’t know much of anything about the person, the lack of ease was still there for me. Some people asked if I’ve been to a speed dating event before, so I was able to mention the one during my study abroad, which I hoped would open up questions about East Asia, but it didn’t really.

The interview (with NYPost) was much more eye opening, as the reporter asked what problems my size has given. I hadn’t really thought about it as a problem causer because several partners have told me it’s “the optimal slightly above average;” but it really hinders enjoyment in some situations; enough so that the men going to this event are not there just for bragging.

And as I’m quoted near the end of the video “I don’t get nearly as much oral…that’s usually the reason,” it’s far from true to say that (only) the big packaged men retain all the women and get what they want.